The change in my attitude towards life was helped by Spencer Johnson who wrote the book ‘Who Stole My Cheese.’ His insistence that rats were more intelligent than humans made me want to learn their ways. Rats didn’t turn back when they came up against a wall, he said. They looked at it from every [...]
God doesn’t care if we’re heterosexual or gay. No-one is looking down to judge us. Nothing cares. It’s all getting on with its own life – and here’s a call for us humans. Monogamy is a man created concept that’s practiced by the minority. Ohio State University’s study concluded men thought about sex over 19 [...]
When Dad wasn't dancing a Greek dance; with a pile of glasses stacked on his head, he was at the local coffee shop, talking to his friends. Mum was always sending me to fetch him, because he was supposed to be working at our restaurant. ‘What am I, a slave?’ she’d say. ‘Go and tell [...]
My niece came over for dinner last week. She’s single and on Tinder looking for a man. To drag her away from some twit she was texting, I announced it was time to eat. My niece told the guy. Next second she was laughing herself silly. ‘What?’ I asked. ‘He asked if I wanted to [...]
Stop making sexual attraction your main criteria. This does not apply to men. Let’s leave them on Mars shagging their eyes out while we concentrate on getting our act together on Venus. Sex is a powerful force to get a man’s attention but if you hooked him with your boobs exposed to your nipples [...]
Stella Ralfini. I think we've cut men's balls off I feel it’s important to share views on subjects like this even if it divides us, since to me it represents healthy debate. Therefore, without further ado, let me tell you what got up my nose last week. I was watching a commercial on [...]
First three pages of another of my forthcoming books called Rock 'N Roll Mayhem. 1970. Hope it makes you want to read on... A Maui Wowie rock ‘n’ roll rave about music, sex, and life on the road. Silent scream loud in my ears, I stared in the mirror at the eyes reflecting [...]
My best friend’s brother lay wasting away in a hospice with two months to live. Two of my friends, early sixties, died in the last six months. Across the road a man lay dead for five days before anyone found his body. Last year I was diagnosed with malignant melanoma cancer. The [...]
Stella Ralfini,70, considered one of the most knowledgeable women in the beauty world today, admits naivety is what keeps getting her in trouble with the press. ‘You’d think once was enough and I’d have learned my lesson three years ago, but when a different media company approached me earlier this year I fell headlong in [...]
The woman I refer to happens to be a friend of mine. She is not Facebook savvy like most of us, is of a certain age, and by her own admission, does not have much excitement in her life. Out of the blue, a handsome lieutenant, apparently widowed and in need of [...]