Blind Annie’s Dress Stella Ralfini

When Dad wasn't dancing a Greek dance; with a pile of glasses stacked on his head, he was at the local coffee shop, talking to his friends.  Mum was always sending me to fetch him, because he was supposed to be working at our restaurant. ‘What am I, a slave?’ she’d say.  ‘Go and tell [...]

By | August 9th, 2019|Stella's thoughts|0 Comments

Forget Pre-Nubs and Gender. Let’s Liberate Sex

    God doesn’t care if we’re heterosexual or gay. No-one is looking down to judge us. Nothing cares. It’s all getting on with its own life – and here’s a call for us humans. Monogamy is a man created concept that’s practiced by the minority and is on its way out. Ohio State University’s [...]

By | July 31st, 2019|Love and Relationships|0 Comments

Can The World Get More Shallow?

My niece came over for dinner last week. She’s single and on Tinder looking for a man. To drag her away from some twit she was texting, I announced it was time to eat. My niece told the guy. Next second she was laughing herself silly. ‘What?’ I asked. ‘He asked if I wanted to [...]

By | June 2nd, 2019|Stella's thoughts|0 Comments

Stella Ralfini (71) A Ballsy Article on Sex and Players

  Stop making sexual attraction your main criteria.  This does not apply to men. Let’s leave them on Mars shagging their eyes out while we concentrate on getting our act together on Venus. Sex is a powerful force to get a man’s attention but if you hooked him with your boobs exposed to your nipples [...]

By | December 9th, 2018|Stella's thoughts|0 Comments

Stella Ralfini My Relationship With a Spider

Six weeks ago I began a relationship with a spider. I call him Albert (although he could equally be Albertina). Albert lives in my bath. He’s asleep most of the time dreaming spider dreams. The first few weeks I nudged him with my bath sponge to hop on so I could lift him to safety [...]

By | September 30th, 2018|Mind Body and Soul|0 Comments

CLOTHED IN CHOCOLATE SAUCE

      My best friend’s brother lay wasting away in a hospice with two months to live. Two of my friends, early sixties, died in the last six months. Across the road a man lay dead for five days before anyone found his body. Last year I was diagnosed with malignant melanoma cancer. The [...]

By | February 22nd, 2018|Stella's thoughts|0 Comments

Women Nearly Has Bank Account Cleaned Out In Facebook Scam.

      The woman I refer to happens to be a friend of mine. She is not Facebook savvy like most of us, is of a certain age, and by her own admission, does not have much excitement in her life. Out of the blue, a handsome lieutenant, apparently widowed and in need of [...]

By | December 11th, 2017|Stella's thoughts|0 Comments

Be Done With Anxiety. Choose Love.

When we were children, we didn’t plan things, and we didn’t need much to make us happy. With imagination, a couple of bottle tops and a piece of string were enough to give us hours of pleasure. And whilst we may have dreamed of growing up to be astronauts, marry a pop star or live [...]

By | September 23rd, 2017|Stella's thoughts|0 Comments

Stella Ralfini Online Skype sessions for health, relationships, career and life advise.

      Even when Stella is not in the city where you reside, you can book a life-coach lesson with her via Skype. Stella is one of few psychologist/life coaches who can rightfully call themselves a ‘Teacher of Self Knowledge.’ To gain this title means she also trained as a healer (at Master level) [...]

By | June 1st, 2017|Uncategorised|0 Comments

Don’t Let The World Turn You Into Ice.

    Our original nature is water, so we were meant to flow with the river. We were meant to move fluidly, allowing nothing to keep us from our greatness.  Sadly, by the time we’re adults we have been contaminated by conditioning and weighed down with labels.  Labels that say ‘I am a mother, daughter, [...]

By | April 27th, 2017|Uncategorised|2 Comments