Stella Ralfini My Relationship With a Spider

Six weeks ago I began a relationship with a spider. I call him Albert (although he could equally be Albertina). Albert lives in my bath. He’s asleep most of the time dreaming spider dreams. The first few weeks I nudged him with my bath sponge to hop on so I could lift him to safety [...]

By | September 30th, 2018|Mind Body and Soul|0 Comments

I THINK WE’VE CUT MEN’S BALLS OFF.

Stella Ralfini. I think we've cut men's balls off I feel it’s important to share views on subjects like this even if it divides us, since to me it represents healthy debate. Therefore, without further ado, let me tell you what got up my nose last week. I was watching a commercial on [...]

By | August 29th, 2018|Stella's thoughts|0 Comments

ROAD TO FREEDOM

Saturday 2nd June 15.30 – 20.30 How do fears grow to the point where they overwhelm us? What causes us to feel helpless and lost? Why do few seem to understand us? How do we find courage to leave miserable relationships? Why don’t we fully love ourselves? Is there any hope for the future? This [...]

By | May 28th, 2018|Mind Body and Soul|0 Comments

CLOTHED IN CHOCOLATE SAUCE

      My best friend’s brother lay wasting away in a hospice with two months to live. Two of my friends, early sixties, died in the last six months. Across the road a man lay dead for five days before anyone found his body. Last year I was diagnosed with malignant melanoma cancer. The [...]

By | February 22nd, 2018|Stella's thoughts|0 Comments

Women Nearly Has Bank Account Cleaned Out In Facebook Scam.

      The woman I refer to happens to be a friend of mine. She is not Facebook savvy like most of us, is of a certain age, and by her own admission, does not have much excitement in her life. Out of the blue, a handsome lieutenant, apparently widowed and in need of [...]

By | December 11th, 2017|Stella's thoughts|0 Comments

Why I still smoke cannabis at 70.

I don’t shy from sharing that I am still smoke cannabis/weed at seventy. I have smoked it in moderation for nearly fifty years and it hasn’t made my mind sloppy, damaged my brain cells, prevented me from having a successful career or taking care of my health and looks. I’m a life coach, health/beauty advisor [...]

By | December 6th, 2017|Stella's thoughts|0 Comments

Be Done With Anxiety. Choose Love.

When we were children, we didn’t plan things, and we didn’t need much to make us happy. With imagination, a couple of bottle tops and a piece of string were enough to give us hours of pleasure. And whilst we may have dreamed of growing up to be astronauts, marry a pop star or live [...]

By | September 23rd, 2017|Stella's thoughts|0 Comments

Kill Fear Before It Kills You

      Perhaps we hate our job but won’t leave because what might happen to us then? What if our next job turns out to be worse than the one we had? What if we end up penniless? What if… Perhaps we don’t love our partner but won’t leave because what would happen to [...]

By | August 9th, 2017|Uncategorised|0 Comments

Fast Sex or Wait?

      My niece came over for dinner last week. She’s single and on Tinder looking for a man. To drag her away from some twit she was texting, I announced it was time to eat. My niece told the guy. Next second she was laughing herself silly. ‘What?’ I asked. ‘He asked if [...]

By | July 2nd, 2017|Stella's thoughts|0 Comments

How NOT To Make Our Life On Earth Hell.

  We all seem to be endlessly wavering between heaven and hell but if we could just accept what is, as it’s being given to us, right here, right now, how much simpler life would be?  After all, what is hell, it’s a tight feeling in our gut that life has robbed us in some [...]

By | June 13th, 2017|Uncategorised|0 Comments