Stella Ralfini My Relationship With a Spider

Six weeks ago I began a relationship with a spider. I call him Albert (although he could equally be Albertina). Albert lives in my bath. He’s asleep most of the time dreaming spider dreams. The first few weeks I nudged him with my bath sponge to hop on so I could lift him to safety [...]

By | September 30th, 2018|Mind Body and Soul|0 Comments

Be Done With Anxiety. Choose Love.

When we were children, we didn’t plan things, and we didn’t need much to make us happy. With imagination, a couple of bottle tops and a piece of string were enough to give us hours of pleasure. And whilst we may have dreamed of growing up to be astronauts, marry a pop star or live [...]

By | September 23rd, 2017|Stella's thoughts|0 Comments

How NOT To Make Our Life On Earth Hell.

  We all seem to be endlessly wavering between heaven and hell but if we could just accept what is, as it’s being given to us, right here, right now, how much simpler life would be?  After all, what is hell, it’s a tight feeling in our gut that life has robbed us in some [...]

By | June 13th, 2017|Uncategorised|0 Comments

Magnetize Beauty Through The Law of Attraction

  You are beautiful. Think about the people who know you and tell you that you are? If you believe them why not have more faith in yourself? Maybe you are overweight but worrying isn’t going to make you slim. Soon you’ll be ready to shed those pounds, until then, feel beautiful. Maybe the mirror [...]

By | June 4th, 2017|Uncategorised|0 Comments

Stella Ralfini Online Skype sessions for health, relationships, career and life advise.

      Even when Stella is not in the city where you reside, you can book a life-coach lesson with her via Skype. Stella is one of few psychologist/life coaches who can rightfully call themselves a ‘Teacher of Self Knowledge.’ To gain this title means she also trained as a healer (at Master level) [...]

By | June 1st, 2017|Uncategorised|0 Comments

Don’t Sit There Waiting. Pick Up The Phone.

Here we are with minds that can be trained to produce excellence of thought, yet how easily we allow them to corrode with inner self-destructive voices. How many times have we shuddered in their wake when an uncomplicated way of thinking could cure such madness? Imagine living in a world with no self-doubt? Imagine how [...]

By | May 29th, 2017|Uncategorised|0 Comments

How NOT To Give Your Power Away

  Where I live in Greece some of the year, many believe in the evil eye… Usually they call a relative and ask them to take it away through incantation. This is the worst thing a spiritual warrior could do because when we offload what’s ours to solve on someone else, we weaken our energy [...]

By | May 22nd, 2017|Uncategorised|0 Comments

I’m A Rat And Loving it. Join the Club

Some years ago a man decided to eat a ‘plane to prove it could be done. Why he chose that is anyone’s guess but he achieved his goal by eating a chunk every day until the last screw was digested. George Bernard Shaw once famously said “Some men see things as they are and ask [...]

By | May 15th, 2017|Uncategorised|0 Comments

Don’t Let The World Turn You Into Ice.

    Our original nature is water, so we were meant to flow with the river. We were meant to move fluidly, allowing nothing to keep us from our greatness.  Sadly, by the time we’re adults we have been contaminated by conditioning and weighed down with labels.  Labels that say ‘I am a mother, daughter, [...]

By | April 27th, 2017|Uncategorised|2 Comments