Blind Annie’s Dress Stella Ralfini

When Dad wasn't dancing a Greek dance; with a pile of glasses stacked on his head, he was at the local coffee shop, talking to his friends.  Mum was always sending me to fetch him, because he was supposed to be working at our restaurant. ‘What am I, a slave?’ she’d say.  ‘Go and tell [...]

By | August 9th, 2019|Stella's thoughts|0 Comments

Forget Pre-Nubs and Gender. Let’s Liberate Sex

    God doesn’t care if we’re heterosexual or gay. No-one is looking down to judge us. Nothing cares. It’s all getting on with its own life – and here’s a call for us humans. Monogamy is a man created concept that’s practiced by the minority and is on its way out. Ohio State University’s [...]

By | July 31st, 2019|Love and Relationships|0 Comments

Tropical Fruit and Avocado Anti-Aging Skin Feast

I had such a delicious brunch and I didn’t just eat it, I put it on my face and gave my skin a feast of vitamins, enzymes and goodies fit for a goddess. My breakfast was tropical fruits with Greek yoghurt then smashed avocado on toast. First I used a piece of fresh pineapple, rubbed [...]

By | July 31st, 2019|Beauty and health|0 Comments

Can The World Get More Shallow?

My niece came over for dinner last week. She’s single and on Tinder looking for a man. To drag her away from some twit she was texting, I announced it was time to eat. My niece told the guy. Next second she was laughing herself silly. ‘What?’ I asked. ‘He asked if I wanted to [...]

By | June 2nd, 2019|Stella's thoughts|0 Comments

Stella Ralfini (71) A Ballsy Article on Sex and Players

  Stop making sexual attraction your main criteria.  This does not apply to men. Let’s leave them on Mars shagging their eyes out while we concentrate on getting our act together on Venus. Sex is a powerful force to get a man’s attention but if you hooked him with your boobs exposed to your nipples [...]

By | December 9th, 2018|Stella's thoughts|0 Comments

Stella Ralfini My Relationship With a Spider

Six weeks ago I began a relationship with a spider. I call him Albert (although he could equally be Albertina). Albert lives in my bath. He’s asleep most of the time dreaming spider dreams. The first few weeks I nudged him with my bath sponge to hop on so I could lift him to safety [...]

By | September 30th, 2018|Mind Body and Soul|0 Comments

I THINK WE’VE CUT MEN’S BALLS OFF.

Stella Ralfini. I think we've cut men's balls off I feel it’s important to share views on subjects like this even if it divides us, since to me it represents healthy debate. Therefore, without further ado, let me tell you what got up my nose last week. I was watching a commercial on [...]

By | August 29th, 2018|Stella's thoughts|0 Comments

Top Tips for Tired and Lined eyes.

  Top tips for line free eyes Our eyes are the first thing we see when looking in a mirror – and can cause anxiety when they look jaded or lined - but in my usual way I want to be honest. It’s unlikely we’ll achieve our beauty goals if we don’t work [...]

By | July 19th, 2018|Beauty and health|0 Comments

24 HOUR EMERGENCY MAKE OVER.

Now Ladies, you know what I’m talking about.  Some days you look in the mirror and think ‘Hell, is that me?’ Maybe your look of saggy tiredness, came about due to a passionate weekend of lovemaking, (those were the days lol) or maybe like me, you know you weren’t drinking enough water, overindulging or just [...]

By | March 15th, 2018|Beauty and health|0 Comments

Why I still smoke cannabis at 70.

I don’t shy from sharing that I am still smoke cannabis/weed at seventy. I have smoked it in moderation for nearly fifty years and it hasn’t made my mind sloppy, damaged my brain cells, prevented me from having a successful career or taking care of my health and looks. I’m a life coach, health/beauty advisor [...]

By | December 6th, 2017|Stella's thoughts|0 Comments